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I stumbled upon The Queer Fat Femme Guide To Life by happy happenstance while trolling a friend’s Facebook page one morning. I didn’t get much done that day, as I was instantly sucked into author’s Bevin Branlandingham’s land of fabulosity.

Queer Fat Femme is jammed packed with things I love. There are dance parties and fashion! There is Gay Sex Week, The Lesbian Jack Kerouac Gay American Road Trip, and the airpunch-inspiring Femme Shark Manifesto.

There’s also the best advice on asking someone out I have ever read!

Bevin Branlandingham is a sex-postive, body-positive, fat-positive, queer-positive, smart, funny, gorgeous woman. And she might have the best name in all the blogosphere. Despite being a skinny, straight girl, Queer Fat Femme seems like a great guide for my life.

Go have a gander… just clear your calendar first. I promise you’ll want to linger in the Queer Fat Femme-verse for a while!


  1. Nat says:

    Nobody ever died of awkward… love that oh-so much! (Good dating guide no matter what your leanings/urgings are…)

    • nadinethornhill says:

      The fact that I’m still breathing is proof-positive that nobody ever died of awkward. :-)

  2. Bevin says:

    Thank you so much for your kind words!!!



    • nadinethornhill says:

      My pleasure! Thank you for filling the blogosphere with great, big heaps of awesomeness!